Is love powerful? - On appearance and daily life habit

Different people usually have different appearances and different daily life habits. It is interesting to examine whether there is a relationship between one's appearance and his/her daily life habit. Unmarried people often have the following misconception on this issue: (1) a person with a good appearance must also have a good life habit; (2) if a person with a good appearance happens to have a tiny bad habit, the other party believes that he/she is surely able to change it after getting married. The unmarried people usually have this kind of misconception because they strongly believe in the power of love.

An even more interesting case is that a person believes that he/she can adjust his/her own habit to accommodate the other party due to the power of love. All these lead to a common practice by young people in our society that an unmarried person always first tries his/her best to find a friend with a good appearance before establishing a possible love relationship. I recently heard a touching statement in a song, saying: “I do not mind changing for you”. I do believe that the statement would be sung from the bottom of one’s heart when he/she was singing it. However, I believe it is probably an unscientific statement though it carries a very good intention. People's habits can be easily hidden for a short or a long while but cannot be easily changed. It is very hard or impossible for people to change their daily life habits. It is very hard for men and it is impossible for women to change their habits. Often, it is not due to the lack of love but due to the lack of power.
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