the container. Women's nature of nurturing the family hasn't changed from day one when the human specie climbed down the tree and walked. Quite on the contrary, the "container", which are the culture, the structure of the society and taboos, of which men had contributed the most from so-called "reasoning and logic" , have been changing all the time.

If the shape of your water does not look pretty, try another and better container.

Again, I'm proud of ancient Chinese wisdom.